In this personal account, Caitlyn Moony shares her journey of moving to Vancouver in pursuit of a new home. For additional insights into CBC’s First Person narratives, refer to the FAQ section.
An old flame once tried to rekindle their relationship by sending Caitlyn Moony a song lyric proclaiming, “Only know you love her when you let her go.” Dismissing the gesture, Moony reflects on the irony of wanting someone back only after parting ways.
Now, Moony finds herself reminiscing about her initial impressions of Vancouver.
Upon relocating to Vancouver from Johannesburg in 2018, Moony had high hopes. Having worked as a freelance social researcher in South Africa, she sought better career prospects and financial stability. Vancouver, ranked among the top cities globally, seemed like an ideal choice, especially with her sister already established there.
Prior to her arrival, Moony envisioned a life of yoga in Kitsilano, skiing on Grouse Mountain, and socializing by English Bay. However, reality soon challenged her romanticized expectations.
Initially captivated by Vancouver’s natural beauty, Moony soon realized her relationship with the city was complicated. Struggling to secure employment due to a lack of local connections and “Canadian experience,” she settled for an exhausting job at a startup, barely affording a cramped basement apartment.
As months passed, Moony’s discontent grew, fueled by the city’s shortcomings and her isolation. Missing the sense of community she had in past locales, she struggled to connect with Vancouver’s social fabric.
New citizens in Canada forming friendships to navigate the challenges of settling in a new country.
Feeling adrift, Moony confronted her friend about the city’s elusive populace, highlighting her struggle to integrate. In response, her friend noted Vancouverites’ affinity for outdoor pursuits, leaving Moony feeling even more disconnected.
As the pandemic exacerbated her isolation, Moony eventually departed for London, seeking the
